Hi guys,I'm sorry I haven't blogged in a while I've had alot of stuff going on so in a way I thought this week I would share 'bullying' and my ways to cope bullying.
Throughout most of my secondary/high school years I've been the victim of cyberbullying,name calling,being picked on,bullying by fellow classmates and so on.
You may be reading this like how do you bully? When are you a victim? How to stop being a bully? How to stop being bullied? So I am going to try and help as much as I can because I hate bullies and to be honest it isn't right and it makes you feel crap.
How do people bully?
Bullying is literally anything negative. It can be the odd name calling when the other person is uncomfortable, Picking on their flaws and telling them it, Saying nasty words,Fighting,Isolating them,Ignoring its literally everything!
At the moment I have the odd name calling,flaws picked out and its from sad to say my closest friends. They name my flaws to my face, repeatedly tell me nasty comments and will think they have some sort of authority over me. So this is literally ways you bully people, you may read this and think 'this isn't bullying' 'I do this'... Yes it is bullying and stop it,it hurts people like hell imagine if you went through what others do on a daily basis.
When are you a victim?
You are a victim of bullying,cyberbulling when you feel uncomfortable,hurt or upset by peoples words and actions.
I usually feel this sense of feeling to cry,isolate myself,build walls around me and will stop speaking! It hurts and I know it hurts but being a victim you need to talk about it, I told my mum recently and she was more upset over the fact I didn't tell her than the bullying. So speak about it maybe suggest to your friends it hurts and to stop saying them or even talk to your school. People say 'it doesn't help' but honestly letting people out and telling people how you feel etc does make you feel so much better in yourself.
How to stop being a bully?
I said it before when people bully. Take a step back from your society,socialites and friends then survey your surroundings. Watch the person you bully or pick on or upset and watch them. Notice how they get shy around you,become quieter,more stiff. You will notice they become all awkward then need to realise you hurt them. Yes feel guilty but apologise and change your actions! You may feel crap on that one day but taking it out on others is not the way forward,SO please bully's reading this...please follow what I said and stop or at least try and change.Maybe try becoming the victims friend or at least become more down to earth.
How to stop being bullied?
There is no way of telling you, yes this is the way to stop being bullied. Because every situation is different.
- Maybe sitting down with the bully and talking it out maturely will sort it
- try speaking to a teacher.
- I said this before but still I want to drill it into your skulls SPEAK ABOUT IT!! it makes you feel so much better I'm not even joking it does.
- Go to your teachers/Councillors/family/friends-these are the people who care about you the most!
- Speak to yourself and be confident
To end my point here:Everyone is different and everyone has flaws. Bully's pick on those flaws because they are rude,nasty or maybe just jealous? You need to look at yourself in the mirror.Note every single flaw then find the positive things? You have long legs, your thighs are think, you have a nice bum, your cheeks are naturally blushed. FIND THE GOOD THINGS!! And accept yourself for who you are, I never listened to this but I've started to and so what if I have a big booty and big hips, It makes me feel good Id rather that than fit into barely anything!!
Be true to yourself and believe...
Over and Out,Your one and only... 'A Beautiful Mess x'
Hiya my beautifuls,
I was wondering if any of you have heard of a social site called 'wattpad'?
No? Well I personally think you should all check it out because I have a story to tell you all. Ive become very unsociable and pretty closed over the past couple years because I didn't cope well with stress nor family problems or bullying! I started to read books on itunes and I was told of this website new to me...wattpad.com
I looked on it,made an account and there it began.
I started to write stories and getting reads,votes,comments even a couple fans. The more I wrote the higher the numbers went;my writing style was born and everything changed! My teachers in school noticed my improvement in certain area's in English which was due to this site I started achieving higher grades I had never knew before.
Because of this site Ive became more confident,open minded and found some amazing friends! This site made me who I am today and I'm so grateful to the wattpad team who developed this site so people like me could reach out to it and become everything I hope to become!
On wattpad there is a yearly competition called 'the wattys' this year I've decided to enter my story 'fake it'. I would be so grateful if people could tweet my story to be nominated and voted for so I could have a chance in getting further in the competition. Also please check out fake it. I hope you can see how I've developed into what I believe to be something worth noticing!
Link to wattpad here:wattpad.com
Link to fake it:http://www.wattpad.com/story/17624969-fake-it-wattyawards2014
TWEET THIS: I nominate 'Fake It?' by anonymitygirl15. vote and Retweet please?!http://www.wattpad.com/story/17624969-fake-it-wattyawards2014
#wattys2014 #wattys
Well hello my beautifuls,
how are you all today?Well for my first Wednesday blog I got asked by my sister to do about beauty,specifically make-up. So welcome to 'my favorite make up for school'
Now I'm super excited to start off with make-up because:
- Make-Up is or can be a girls best friend
- I love messing with make-up
- I love talking about make-up and beautiful products
Well first hands up I've only been wearing make-up regularly for 3 years now.
And if I'm honest my skin was terrible and can be now a day but with make up its slowly helped cover my flaws and build my confidence.
So to start off with my favorite foundation of the month has to be: 
Rimmel London Stay Matte this is hands down my favorite foundation because it is amazing for people like me who have oily skin,it lasts over 6 hours(if you are in school and have the problem of foundation fading,I know the feeling),It goes against my skin perfectly and is like amazing because you don't have to use huge amounts to go on your skin.
My favorite powder to just hide or cover shine is:
Collection Sheer Loose Powder,I have used this for 3 months and it has only just ran out, this is perfection! It goes against my skin;makes it feel super smooth and soft and covers all spots;redness and shine! It isn't bad priced and I did buy it as a last resort but now its my favorite
My favorite mascara is:
Maybelline Falsies mascara is the best! From day to night it makes my lashes stand out tremendously! This is like amazing, it is high priced but so worth it! It doesn't run out quick like mine usually do and because I have short lashes it usually never stands out but with this it seriously does!
Now for my favorite ,Lip balm:
Meet body shops lip balm specifically 'watermelon' this is literally my favorite out of it all! It is so cute,small and lush! It tastes so nice, me and my friends in school fight over who will have it because of how nice it is! Its not bad priced and is so good! I love it especially for school because its small enough to fit in a bag,makes your lips bright;soft and shiny! Also it lasts!
So this is my favorite make-ups for school,please tweet me your thoughts and what I should do next week and hey if you like it follow me?
Love you all, Abeautifulmess signing out xo
Good evening everyone,
Id like to firstly say Welcome to 'a beautiful mess', Well thats me.
I dont have a massive ego if im honest I hide behind my friends;family and laptop. I love blogging;Twitter;Facebook;Instagram and of course wattpad.
Im a writer on wattpad(Find me on there:anonymitygirl15) and check out a bunch of my stories if you want:)
So id like to do something and well say what im all about...
My name wont be revealed yet...but it may be soon.
Im 15 years old and from the UK
I write books(over 10,000 reads)
I love blogging and music
Im not confident, extremely socially awkward and well yes, the ultimate 'beautiful mess'.
Every week I will be :
-Doing a certain blog of any choice it could be:Monthy favourties;ask me; season favourties! You name it and I will try and do it on Wednesday Evenings!
-Also just quick updates if needed ect.
So I hope you enjoy the rest of my blogs and well
check me out on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ABeautifulMessG
Wattpad: http://www.wattpad.com/user/AnonymityGirl15
Love you all,A Beautiful Mess x
